{"id":2211,"date":"2016-01-05T11:20:47","date_gmt":"2016-01-05T18:20:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mattfife.com\/?p=2211"},"modified":"2016-01-05T11:37:57","modified_gmt":"2016-01-05T18:37:57","slug":"2211","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/?p=2211","title":{"rendered":"A small gesture of gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"color: #141823;\">Sometimes it takes those from outside our culture to point out what we should hear.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #141823;\">Cartoonist Yao Xiao saw how often people apologized in our culture as a sign of politeness. But apologizing is not the same as saying thanks.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #141823;\">So, <a href=\"http:\/\/brightside.me\/article\/stop-saying-sorry-if-you-want-to-say-thank-you-a-seriously-insightful-cartoon-57255\/\" target=\"_blank\">instead of offering an apology &#8211; make it a moment of gratitude<\/a>.<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2214\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/?attachment_id=2214\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?fit=650%2C1446&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"650,1446\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?fit=460%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2214\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?resize=640%2C1424&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415\" width=\"640\" height=\"1424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?w=650&amp;ssl=1 650w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mattfife.com\/wp-content\/themes\/mattTheme\/headerimgs\/2016\/01\/xxxx963605-650-1449563743-baopu_15_yx_112415.jpg?resize=460%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 460w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes it takes those from outside our culture to point out what we should hear. Cartoonist Yao Xiao saw how often people apologized in our culture as a sign of politeness. But apologizing is not the same as saying thanks. So, instead of offering an apology &#8211; make it a moment of gratitude.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[9,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cool","category-reflections"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s4WECr-2211","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2211"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2217,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2211\/revisions\/2217"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mattfife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}