No Mavericks, no martyrs

No Mavericks, no martyrs

This is one of the best talks on leading and setting expectations on a creative, collaborative production group that I have ever run across. It was given during GDC 2022 by a director at Obsidian Entertainment who clearly came with years of likely painful learning. I loved this quote:

We must bust the myths that equate ‘passion’ with overwork and aggressive ownership, and we must normalize collaborative, sustainable habits.

As she described the work situations and the martyr and maverick worker types, I found myself finally hearing in words many things I experienced but didn’t know how to express. I have personally seen the destruction of many extremely talented teams by just a few divisive elements. They could even be rockstars, but they end up cratering the whole production and driving people away from those teams. Carrie Patel does an amazing job describing how even well intentioned mavericks/martyrs damage the team. This is true to the point that hiring less technically good people that are good teamworkers produces consistently better results than extremely talented people that can’t work with others.

Are mavericks and martyrs inherently bad? No, but they absolutely can be if they are not managed properly. That requires being aware of how their behaviors affect the long-term success of the team.

As it turns out, this is not new learning. Other organizations have learned these lessons long ago.

Special forces teams as well as Mark Cuban point out these same learnings for business and sports teams. People who work more collaboratively and think of the entire team’s impact when making individual choices produce far more productive teams than rockstars/martyrs do. Special forces teams often do not look for the absolute best person – they look for who works in the team. This doesn’t mean you can’t have rockstars or martyr types, but what you want to find and reward is behaviors and an environment that encourages sustainable and truly collaborative teamwork.

Stair Quest!

Stair Quest!

Do you love the gorgeous CGA/EGA graphics of classic Sierra On-Line adventure games like King’s Quest? Do you miss the madness inducing moon logic puzzles? But above all, do you LOVE the frustrating Sierra trope of dying on the most simple staircases?

Relive that pixel-perfect, madness inducing ‘adventures’ going up and down stairs that will kill you with the slightest misstep with Stair Quest!

Here’s a guy that went through the pain:

Drawing on an acrylic lightbox

Drawing on an acrylic lightbox

RCLifeOn created a 2D drawing lightbox from an old 3D printer, a marker, and some LED lights to draw patterns on acrylic. Even more interesting, he did it live on Twitch.

Like many creators, they’re finding a tremendous amount of free software to complete projects without needing to invest long hours developing their own software. They’re creating increasingly more amazing stuff from off the shelf parts.

Some of his software tools:

Reflections of a visionary

Reflections of a visionary

It sometimes happens that we make light of little things [in the spiritual life]. There is nothing little in the spiritual life. Sometimes a seemingly insignificant thing will disclose a matter of great consequence. Many spiritual undertones are concealed in little things.

A magnificent building will never rise if we reject the insignificant bricks. Sin depends on the degree and light within the soul. Sometimes we consider these faults as sins only in the strictest definition (discounting them as trivial). This is also true in [what seems like mild] imperfections. Yet these petty things are of great importance to a soul that is tending towards sanctity. They should not be treated lightly, but with patience and kindness to open the way to the innermost secrets of the soul.

St Faustina Notebook I – entry 52

For those willing to dig deeper, I find the modern world is continually re-discovering the inner truths that Christianity has known for millennium. St Faustina is describing an element of what we today would call emotional intelligence, self-awareness, etc. For those seeking improvement, self awareness comes from reflecting on ourselves (prayer and reflection), paying attention to even our little behaviors, getting feedback on how we’re behaving (measuring our actions against standards of behavior/sin), and then hold ourselves accountable for change (via confession). While the world does this to it’s own constantly changing standards, the Christian measures themselves against the teachings, example, and living relationship with Jesus.

Despite hundreds or even thousands of years, just about every historical document from humanities earliest days shows the same human frailties exist. Most are just as true today as a thousand years ago. Just like the equations of gravity that rule the orbits of our planets to the tensile strength of certain kinds of steel, we can put our complete faith and trust into what they tell us. We trust our planet won’t fly out of orbit to our doom and build bridges out of steel will hold the cars we drive over it. In the same way, this is the true shocking meaning of putting your trust in the teachings of Christ. They do, and have, worked through all time. Two thousand years of proof is pretty compelling.

In reading this quote from St Faustina, I found the observation to seriously consider even the small bricks as important when building a beautiful edifice to be really worth reflection. We all have likely seen something that has been put together by masters. One of the hallmarks of a master is the amazing attention to the smallest details.

Yet, in today’s very distracting world, many of us rarely attend to our inner and spiritual lives because we’re too busy distracting ourselves with near constant, often largely pointless, ways we waste our time: music/noise, travel, careers, money, buying new things, clothes, popularity, consuming social media, etc.

If there was one thing I can recommend to this modern age, it would be this: slow down, viciously defend your quiet reflection and prayer time, and listen to the inner voice of your soul. It is only there that real peace will come.

Backrooms videos

Backrooms videos

The Backrooms is an internet creepypasta that got started in 2019. A simple post and picture on 4chan caught fire. It became stories, then a video game, then lots of video games. Then, it became live short videos that use lots of VCR like 80’s video quality effects.

Andy R Animations shows how he used free versions of Blender and Davinci to create some of the higher quality Backrooms videos. Definitely worth a look at the amazing things people can generate now using free tools.

Horror themed Doom wad – My House

Horror themed Doom wad – My House

One might think not much is still happening in a 30 year old game; but people are still modding the original game Doom (released in 1993) – and getting really creative. Frighteningly creative.

Recently, someone uploaded a mod for the game that seemed pretty simple at first – someone’s house. Making a familiar place like your house in Doom is something modders often start with as beginners. At first blush it seemed like just some new guy’s simple mod attempt. In his post, he claims that:

Excited to finally release this tribute map. Last August I lost a good childhood friend of mine and took it pretty hard. When I was visiting my hometown for his funeral, I connected with his parents who shared with me some of his old belongings. Among them was a copy of an old map of his backed up on a 3.5” floppy from high school. Thomas and I were into amateur Doom mapping in the early 00s but I had never seen this map of his prior to uncovering it on one of the old floppy discs. As a way of paying tribute to him and all the great memories we had together, I took the plunge and installed Doom Builder in order to polish up his map and add a few modern amenities just for convenience sake.

But as you go into the house, things get stranger and stranger. What began as a simple reproduction of someone’s house begins to morph into something entirely different. Technically, some of what happens should be impossible in the original 1993 engine. The environments you soon find yourself are decidedly part of modern internet creepypasta culture.

The story and where it takes you becomes pretty fantastical and astounding. This was clearly done by someone with high technical skill and great storytelling – bending both the game engine and the story itself. If you dig around, you’ll also find extra text files with a back story and… Well – lets not give it all away.

The video above is one of the better walkthroughs of it – describing all the connections to other media and describing all the things that shouldn’t be possible.

Physical Penetration Testing

Physical Penetration Testing

Deviant Ollam did an amazing presentation on his work as a penetration expert. He goes over how they do their work finding the weak points in buildings and companies.

He goes over common door penetration topics: fitment issues, bad latches, opening tools, etc. He also covers lots of topics like duplicating keys from photos, rental key boxes, learning everything you need for faking a service call from service provider key boxes, circumventing buzz-in door boxes or gate access systems, RFID lifting, issues with camera systems, criminally available master keys for common doors/locks.

Modern politeness rules

Modern politeness rules

Back in the day, we had Miss Manners and etiquette books. Now, things are more complicated with constantly changing moral and political landscape (we can discuss why things are now ‘more complicated’ than they were, but that’s another blog entry)

I don’t agree with some of these (and some of them are just … yeah), but it is interesting watching people trying to make sense of social conundrums (which are really moral conundrums) we have created.

There’s some clear contradictions in some of these such as accommodating the most COVID-careful, while putting some clear limits on food allergy issues. Still, some of the decent ones:

  • You don’t have to read everyone’s book. But if you do and you like it, send them a nice note.
  • You may callously cancel almost any plans up until 2 p.m. That gives the friend time to find another activity.
  • Do not get into an argument with your significant other in a group of friends to gather support to prove to them you are right.
  • If you’ve met someone and they clearly don’t remember your name, say, “Hi, we’ve met, I’m X.”
  • The proper response to being told something you already know isn’t “I know.” It’s “You’re right.”
  • If you’re real friends, you accommodate the most COVID-careful among you.
  • Don’t tell someone with an accent that it is “cute.” It’s condescending.
  • If you bring up astrology (of that the moon landing was faked, Trump theory, magic crystals, auras, or any other non mainstream theory) and it isn’t met enthusiastically, change the topic. Not everyone believes in your made-up bullshit.
  • Never ask anyone what their job is. It’s classist and boring. Try to find three other topics to talk about first.
  • Being an racial ally doesn’t mean debasing yourself. Apologizing or saying something about your privledge is condescending and really just a move that’s saying “Oh, look, I’m the center of attention again!”
  • Listening is not the time for you to silently rehearse what you want to say next. Everyone can see your eyes glazing over while you do it.
  • If your burger is becoming a salad, your restaurant-order modifications have gone too far and YOU are the problem.
  • Deciding your order at the counter when there is a line. When you get to the front, you should already know what you want and say it.
  • Don’t foist your food allergies onto a dinner party. At a dinner party, it’s about what the host wants to do. Just pick at what you can, then eat when you get home.
  • The correct number of slices of pizza to order for a group of X people is 2X + X/3.
  • After high school, you’re not allowed to be a birthday diva. Don’t use it to make demands on people – you’re a grown up, so act like it.
  • Always be the first one out if something seems bad. Be the first one to bounce when things go wrong for any reason. Feeling menaced? Smell smoke? Time to head out.
  •  If you like them, text people within three hours of hanging out with them.
  • Whoever put the most work into planning the trip gets first dibs on the rooms. And yes, that’s whether they’re single or a couple.
  • If your host is doing the dishes, it means you’re supposed to leave.
  • If you’re somebody’s houseguest, always strip the bed, even if they tell you not to worry about it.
  • If you lose or break something you borrowed, offer to replace it.
  • Don’t buy a gift off-registry but money is the perfect gift if nothing else.
  • While not always feasible, it is morally superior to call in takeout and delivery orders rather than using the apps. Matt’s note: I also find it’s usually cheaper. App prices are usually about 10-20% higher.
  • And if you’re dialing into a meeting and your internet connection is choppy, don’t struggle through. Put your thoughts in the chat, or message someone to say them for you.
  • If you’re a boss and you see your employees in the wild, greet them warmly but briskly and move out quickly.
  • Don’t comment on other people’s food or what they are putting on their plate.
  • Disclose your recent positive COVID test to those possibly affected promptly but without shame.
  • If you hear rumblings of layoffs and are wondering if a friend or acquaintance was affected, the gentlest way to inquire is “Sounds like a tough day at <their company/team name> Thinking of you”
  • Gossip as if the person were just 12 feet from you. Because if they aren’t, someone that knows them probably is, and that’ll get back to them.
  • Your kid doing algebra in second grade? Reading at 3½? Selectively share, don’t go crazy.
  • Sharing parenting advice is a no-win game. Every kid is different and needs different approaches.

Texting:

  • Don’t ever message someone “k.” It’s basically the same as “f* you” to most people.
  • If they hand you their phone to show you a photo, keep your thumb still. Do NOT scroll through their photos.
  • Don’t use Instagram Stories/Facebook/etc to surveil what your friends choose to do instead of hanging out with you. the story you’ll tell yourself will always be worse than the real one.
  • Hot gossip goes only in the voice memo, never in text. As your attorney, I must advise you: Send that gossip in a voice memo.
  • Sit down and respond to an email, even if it’s a year late. Just say why honestly.
  • Don’t harass your friends (or, worse, co-workers) to promote you online — and don’t forget lots of people just don’t live like this online.
  • Find your signature sign-off and stick with it. From “all best” to “lotsa love,” be yourself.
  • Read receipts (i.e. has someone read this email) are to be turned on only in cases of medical emergency.
  • You have to get consent to post a conversation with a friend on social media.
  • Don’t pelt your friends with text messages. If someone is texting you too much, just tell them your cadence, “I don’t text when I’m busy during the day at work”

Completely disagree:

  • It’s okay to email, text, or DM anyone at any hour. This directly contradicts her point #6 about never waking a significant other for any purpose. Nobody is watching or making big choices from midnight until 6am no matter what you text. If something is that important, it’s your job to get up early to text or call them at a human hour of 7am or later. Anything from midnight to 6am better be an emergency or part of a stag party.
  • You can eat anything at your desk in an open-plan office. There are break rooms for a reason. Not everyone needs to smell everything you’re eating. It’s just one more example why open office spaces are provably worse than even cubes.
  • Saw someone shoplifting? No, you didn’t – I have absolutely called out people shoplifting. I did it to them not the police. I saw some late 20 year olds very ham-fistedly stealing random snacks. They saw me see them shoving handfuls of stuff in their pockets. I put on my best elementary school teacher face/voice and said, “Really?” They put them back. Calling out bad behavior is perfectly acceptable – and something I have no problem doing. You’re adults, act like it. Antisocial behavior begets more antisocial behavior. Best to nip that in the bud earlier than later.
  • Post like the wind. Conventional wisdom is that you should post on your main Instagram feed no more than once a day. Posting 15 individual photos to your main grid in one day is what freedom feels like. – No, it just shows you have nothing better going on in your life than social media and it is likely affecting your mental and emotional health. Get off social media.
  • Tipping rules – Most of the comments in that article agree. New York, San Francisco, and other large tourist cities have guaranteed service work pay now and tips are actually LESS needed than before. Rising minimum wage laws in many of these cities also negates this need. When Zuni in San Francisco went to a no-tip model, the workers revolted and many left – because they made far more from the untaxed tips – so this tells you how much money these servers were making. Much of it completely untaxed if unreported.