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Life stages – and not getting ahead of yourself

Life stages – and not getting ahead of yourself

Life is a journey of exploration and discovery.  And I’ve noticed that the advice you tell yourself, the things you learn, and your ability to hear and understand them are often tied to your age.  The Greeks believed a person didn’t reach self-awareness until they turned about 50.  I have recently been reflecting on the ‘life-stages’ – and others have written books about it.  There is a strange connection between what goes on in folks lives at different ages. See if any of these mesh up with my experiences.

Teens:
-you want to get out of school and home.  Still, you’re in that middle ground of still being tied to your parents, and not quite capable to be getting out into the world.  This varies greatly by person and situation.  But still, you have the stink of still being a kid on you.

20’s:
-You get out.  College was great – freedom for the first time.  All kinds of learning experiences as you moved out into the world – getting too drunk, messing up your relationships, etc – but you have seemingly unbounded energy to explore novel new ideas and try new things.  But you’re broke too.
-After college – I was out to make my mark.  I was going to do it all – with lots of crazy activities: snowboarding, mountainbiking, running, hiking, etc. I worked long hours at work and was very ambitious in my goals.  I reached most, if not all, the goals that mattered to me. In fact, most everything you do is about yourself and your doing stuff.  I was trading time for experience and achievement. If someone had told me to slow down or take a longer-looking approach – I doubtfully would have listened.

30’s:
-You slowly no longer need to prove things to yourself.  You know your limits better and can tell which things turn out to be meaningful or not much earlier (getting into stupid relationships slows – hopefully).  And conversely, you begin to see what things aren’t changing.  Which things in your life (personal, physical, emotional, etc) that have not been growing in the ways you want – despite your efforts.
-You stop needing to live for yourself. You feel more fully the pull to do and contribute to things outside yourself.  You become increasingly bored and unsatisfied with purely self-serving activities.

Anyone else finding these patterns in their own life?

Eudaimonia – Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness

Eudaimonia – Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness

I think I wrote about this before, but found some better wording.  It has to do with the difference between what our founding fathers talked about when writing about the rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness – and what we seem to think of today.

See, our founding fathers were no slouches.  They were very well educated statesmen and leaders known around the world even in their day (trips of Ben Franklin to Europe are good examples).  Anyone who’s read their writings also knows this.  This means they were heavily trained in the classics and philosophy –  something we don’t do much of today.  Anyone who’s studied philosophy will immediately key off on the word ‘happiness’.

See, the ancient Greeks struggled with the idea of what life was for – something we do today.  What made a good life?  What constituted living and living well.  They started very scientifically by making observations – they saw that humans had a unique ability to reason that no other animal had – among other unique qualities.  They also had a more wholistic view of the human person as body, mind, and a ‘guiding spirit’.  They also had a much more poetic and expressive language.  We often translate their works, but unless you take the time to look up the entomology of the words or have a good instructor to guide you – you’ll rarely get the connotations right or even get what they were really saying.  This is why those that really want to study classical philosophy learn how to read Greek and Latin.  As someone that learned Latin well enough to read things in the language, it opens the works of that time period up in unbelievable fashion to whole new levels of understanding our language barely has the constructs to communicate or translate.

As an example, the word ‘happiness’ is probably one of the worst offenders.  Instead, here’s the word the Greeks used that often shows up in our translations as happiness.  It’s eudaimonia – and this is the wikipedia article on the word:

Eudaimonia (Greek: εὐδαιμονία) is a classical Greek word commonly translated as ‘happiness‘. Etymologically, it consists of the word “eu” (“good” or “well being”) and “daimōn” (“spirit” or “minor deity”, also used by extension to mean one’s lot or fortune). Although popular usage of the term happiness refers to a state of mind, related to joy or pleasure, eudaimonia rarely has such connotations, and the less subjective “human flourishing” is often preferred as a translation.

Eudaimonia, [literally ‘having a good guardian spirit’] along with “arête” (virtue), is one of the two central concepts in ancient Greek ethics.

As you see, happiness isn’t a concept related to ‘feeling happy’.  Instead, it’s a rightness of the person that lets them flourish to reach their full potential.  To have a spirit guided by good principles that helps a person live fully and best.  With this core of recognizing the good of the self, they extended that to say then the job of  government is to set itself up in a way that it orders the interactions of citizens to let all individuals flourish in a way that was good and right.  And that in turn will make them better contributors and aids to all of society.  That is why things like theft and murder are to be prohibited.  These things act to rob a citizen of their human flourishing.

It was also essential to that view that there were clear imperatives for a person who wanted to live fully and best – one didn’t just get to do whatever they felt.  While different thoughts on what those things were existed and was a subject of a lot of discussion, they did have some really interesting concepts.  Such as saying it was good and right to give your life for what is right – either in war or in speaking the truth.  For to live eudaimonia-ously was to do what was right and good – and it carried the imperatives for upholding that good and rightness.  Not to say that this couldn’t get you in trouble – especially if you’re concepts of what good and right are really wrong – but that’s why they spent so much time trying to define those very things so that one didn’t get into that trap.  What some of those values were is left to another session – for there were lots of competing (and often very strange) thoughts on that matter.

Still, I think that’s enough for our conversation.  Our founding fathers wouldn’t have said the pursuit of happiness is to be blissful and drunk all the time.  Instead, they recognized that that goal of reaching happiness – eudaimonia – was a life-long task of work.  A task that was to be treasured and protected.  They would probably have said quite the opposite of what most of us think of as happiness – much more in line with what Kennedy said when he said to ask not what your country can do for you – but what you can do for your country.  It was the freedom to do the hard work of finding the good and right – and living it.  And the government shouldn’t get in the way of that – but instead protect and treasure that struggle. I think we miss that a lot in our current state of interactions with each other, in our courts, in our policies, and what we expect our government to do for us.

Food for your thoughts.

Hanging out with the Crystal Method

Hanging out with the Crystal Method

Last night the Crystal Method did a show here in Portland last night.  I decided to go last minute – and it was a good show – but by the end of the night -I’m hanging out with the band.  No joke:

Anyway – show ends and a coworker sticks around for a t-shirt. We’re finally rounding the back of the Roseland to head to Ground Kontrol when these kids come up and slap a green wristband on my coworkers arm and tell him to head backstage. And, long story short, by the end of the night, we hang out and then start bar hopping Portland with the two guys from Crystal Method – in a group of about 10 people. I think I ended up back home around 4am. Pretty friggen sweet.
Here are some of their more famous songs to refresh your memory:
Trip like I do

Busy Child

Forgotten midwest

Forgotten midwest

Had forgotten about springtime in the midwest.  Everything is just so…green.

I’ve been home in rural Indiana the last few days helping clean up some family property.  Well, that and brushing up on my nail-gun and roofing skills by finishing off some aluminum siding on our back porch.

 

It’s amazing how much stuff can collect, and how many little projects there are, on several properties between two generations – one generation on a farm and the next being a family of 10. I can’t say we got everything completed, but we made a substantial dent in the important things.

In digging through the stuff, I’m constantly amazed how much farming and technology in general have moved in two generations.  My grandparents grew up when electricity finally got out to rural areas, farm machinery did 6-10 rows at a time, milking was done by hand, the phone was a party-line and was prone to throw sparks into the room if the line got hit during a lightning storm.  But now, gone are most of the old wooden barns – or they’re simply falling over.  The ones that are still in great shape are rarely actually used for farming – but are converted to display pieces or even lived in.  Those that get razed are replaced with large aluminum/steel machine sheds every bit as big as the old.  Farmers no longer have smatterings of everything: a little land, a few cows/sheep/pigs/chickens, and a home patch.  Now, land farmers have huge machinery and miles long uninterrupted fields.  Animal farmers specialize in hundreds to thousands of only one kind of animal.  Things are much more efficient and surprisingly cleaner.  Unfortunately, this also means fewer people are needed to maintain the same amount of land.  Simple economics dictates that small farmers and farms can’t do much more than subsist with $2-4/bushel corn/bean prices. Fence rows that needed to be cleared yearly and delineated property simply disappear in deference to larger and larger open areas.  Either you’re getting bigger, or you’re soon to be moving.  The small family farm, despite the efforts of Farm Aid and the various attempts to save the lifestyle, have become victims of technology more than anything else.  You just don’t need as many people to farm the same land anymore.

Still, there were all kinds of little farm implements, tools, and techniques that are simply being lost to time and technology.  Already there are some tools I used with my grandfather that nobody knew what were but me.  And there were all sorts of things you find you can’t make heads nor tails of.  The techniques of using these tools or what they were even used are quickly being lost.  Amazing to pick up something that was a key piece of equipment 50 years ago, and now nobody even knows what it is.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not nostalgic for these days to come back.  They were rough and dangerous.  People lost lives and limbs in pretty horrible ways back then – and still do to a degree today.  Farm equipment was deadly – I lost an uncle to a tractor roll-over, a neighbor lost most of an arm, and my own father narrowly averted death with a PTO shaft.  Not to mention farming with horses.  So it always gets my craw a bit when folks around the city here want to go ‘back to farming the way they did before’.  I don’t think they appreciate how hard and downright inefficient farming in those older ways was.  Regardless of the pesticides/chemicals/organic issues – it was bloody hard work and a yearly gamble to grow a field of crops and see it from planting to harvest. The penalties of failure were not bailed out – you simply lived very lean and poor for a year or two to make up the bad years.  Harvest festivals that celebrated a good harvest encapsulated an entire year of planning, guessing, planting, cultivating, and harvesting.  I think that’s where I get a lot of my own attitudes of playing things safe financially and using the good times to prepare and set up cushions for the times when you knew they’d be bad.

I guess it came down to this in the end – to remember what you came from in order to really savor the wonderful things we have now – and to take full advantage of those opportunities that were created to their fullest extent.

Scr*w you Amazon

Scr*w you Amazon

So, we have this little health program at work – all voluntary – and for doing a health screen/hitting various exercise/weight/smoking/etc goals – you get rewarded with $25 gift cards from American Express.  Well, this free money isn’t quite what it’s cracked up to be.  It only works at a handful of retailers – of which the only one you’ve likely even heard of is Amazon.  But yet, you cannot combine the use of this card with another payment option.  So in other words, you need to spend up to $25 exactly – and not over.  And, they have the card blocked so you can’t buy gift cards either.  Lame.

But here’s a site to help you stick it back to the man.  If you purchase an item, but are just shy of the $25 free shipping, use this site to help you find items of the amount you desire.

http://www.filleritem.com/

It will help you located “filler items” of a certain value to get you to the magic $25 for free shipping.

Persistence hunting

Persistence hunting

Any time you go to parties out here in Portland, inevitbly you’ll run into people that think the are “all that” at running or biking.  Now there are lots of really good bikers and runners – and I run a 5k daily to stay in shape/good health.  But when I think of a good runner, I think of these guys.  Couple of interesting notes:

  • The hunt happens during the heat of the day
  • The belief is the man can out last the prey because he can sweat to cool himself and replenish water while running -whereas the kudu cannot and overheats/becomes exhausted.  Would this work in cooler climates?
  • He’s wearing average old shoes at 3:38 – nothing fancy
  • The chase takes 8 hours.

Dracula in real-time

Dracula in real-time

“Experience Bram Stoker’s Dracula in a new way — in real time. Dracula is an epistolary novel (a novel written as a series of letters or diary entries,) and this blog will publish each diary entry on the day that it was written by the narrator so that the audience may experience the drama as the characters would have.”

Here

Which Disney princess are you?

Which Disney princess are you?

Take the quiz and find out…


Turns out:
“You are Pocahontas”
“You are Pocahontas.  You defy convention and sometimes do what is considered taboo.  Unfortunately, others do not always appreciate your differences, so it’s good that you are so string-willed.  You are loyal and you believe in fate.  Your true love will find you one day.”

I can’t wait. 🙂

Speaker paper

Speaker paper

Yes, a sheet of pretty standard paper is turned into a speaker.  Still bendable, good audio quality (50hz-20khz), etc.  Only sad part is that I can see this primarily used for advertising.  As if adverts weren’t already more than annoying enough.

Link is a video clip showing it actually playing music – crazy.